Hello everyone I would like to talk a little about how I deal with other peoples bad days released upon me. Now whenever someone does something rude to me; I might in the initial moment be very upset with them. But I eventually disperse any angry I have for them or resentment. I start thinking what they might be going through to act the way they are treating me. Did something go wrong in their day? are they really trying to actually make me mad intentionally? Maybe I did do something that was my fault and did not realize it.
Just so you know I do stand up for myself if it is really them trying to demean me. I won't put up with it, but before I go to that stage I think of the consequences that will happen after I take action. Will it solve anything if I reduce myself to there level? Is it worth my time to ruin my whole day, because they were rude to me? Most of the time I think not, but I can't lie that it does feel good when you release how your feeling instead of calming down. Then I think Maybe that is what they are doing, but does not give the person the right to be rude to a complete stranger, but I see there side.
In all reality I apply this to a lot of situations I am in mainly because I think it helps me empathized what they might be going through. Again this does not excuse there behavior, just lets me understand it without knowing anything about them. Some might actually be rude on purpose because they really are a horrible person, but even then I still think maybe they had it rough growing up, or something like that.
Anyways that is just what I like to think about before I retaliated; I think of all of these things and then just move on with my life. I sometimes hope that after the person was rude to me that there day gets better and then they might feel a bit guilty in what they did to me, but that is just one scenario. I won't tell you about the honey badgers with lasers on there head :)
Next post will be on November 27, Sunday
Remember everyone stay extraordinary.
Sifu R. Langner
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